RE:What women ( AND men) want
by Kaushik Das on Sep 12, 2006 12:34 PM
Yes, a sizable number of christians were in the sample (Strange! considering that they are just two percent of our population), but there were quite a lot of non-christian opinion as well. So, this point is pointless. Besides, the christians didn't give their suggestions based on the bible, so their religious belief is immaterial over here. However, I would have appreciated more matured people on the scene.
To the boys: Don't chase girls. If they are after you, just love them. Don't be stupid enough to marry them.
To the girls: Be independent. Just listen to your boy friends or girl friends or your parents, weigh the pros and cons and take your own decisions. Earn lot of money and be prepared to spend on boys (a little difficult, but do try, that way you will know what is chaff and what is grain. Who is greedy and who is needy and at the right moment, do not hesitate to alter your relationships. Don't ever depend on his money) and parents (You willl make them happy even if the gifts are small). Don't ever depend on boys or parents for money.
To both boys and girls: Marriage and sex are secondary. Brooding on these is a waste of time. There is a greater purpose for you in life. If you try to understand the purpose and objective and focus on it wholeheartedly, the rest will follow automatically. Don't ever consult Psychiatrists, Psychologists and Sexologists. Most of them are fraudulent people. They will deprive you of your good earned money mercilessly. You will lose your peace of mind by consulting. And understand this - Nobody is perfect including those who advise you.
RE:advice
by Amit Jakhar on Sep 27, 2006 12:09 PM
Dear frnd, To say that you can love one person all your life is just like saying that one candle will continue burning as long as you live.
In the areithmetic of love one plus one equals everything and two minus one equals nothing.
hi all, i m sajid 33, Mba from mumbai, well divorced though. communication plays a vital role in any relation with the other sex. the more u communicate the more u understand each other and likewise the relation and trust goes stronger. i was very bad in doing so and thus i m repenting it now, which is too late for me to. Personality doesnt means looks body, but the way your partner is presenting him / her in any circumstances. though if u ask me fairly i would rank 100 out of 100 for a girls eyes which facinates me much. so you lucky ones dont go on the "Love at first site" but make it real Love by seeing and talking honestly with your partner.
