Girlie, I must say U r sure an inspiration for gals like me. M a 25 yr old girl from Hyd, n I don't see myself getting married as yet,not in the near future atleast. Marriage can wait for a couple of yrs.
Its comforting to know there r many girls out there who echo the same thoughts as me.After reading ur exp, I m all the more determined to take that giant leap n just move out(ofcourse, bearing in mind,all the not so pleasant things for a single woman)
All the best girl n wish me the same. 3 cheers for women power,HIP HIP HURRAY, HA HA.
RE:This is for Anisha Fernandes
by anisha on Nov 25, 2005 07:49 PM
hi sandy! i'm glad i made a diff to you! all the best girl! WAY TO GOOOOOOOOO! Anisha
Living a single life is much more easier if some discipline is observed and more complicated if lives in an unsystematic manner.
Spend some time for prayer, Yogas and Asanas thereby you can rejuvante yourselves and not tempted by yourselves to practice any untoward things in life.
I had just completed my post graduation when I went to search for a job in New Delhi. I stayed there with friends in a hostel for some time then I found a house for myself to move in. Certain tips to manage yourself 1. the day u get ur salary keep aside for the fixed expenses 1st like rent, electricity, phone, taxi or bus fare. save some money for contingencies n the rest is all urs. 2. don't make friends with those people who do not match ur status or temperament. 3. keep a track of all ur expenses. 4. do whatever u want to within the limits of ur own family values. 5. in this way if u r loosing any friends then its fine persue some hobbies to keep urself engaged. 6. never let others know that u r missing ur family too much n u need a shoulder to lean on. 7. if u r a girl then beware of those good guys who wud take advantage of ur lonelyness in the course of helping you 8. try to be systematic n logical in work so that u don't have to stay back in office late.
hope some people will benefit from the advice i've given here. these r frm my own experience.
i really like the way you stay away from your home at the age of 21. i am also working as a software programmer in a Mumbai, So i can understand how the people are working in this field. All the best for your rest of life.
