i don't know what to do.please help me.we argue all the time .we speak we talk with each other and we promise to be good friends.but there's still no smile after that. no relationship.....anyway he believes that he is good and nothing is wrong,but i suffer from this silence....how many days should i tolerate it to have a good relatin again?the problem is so small but i pay so much for it each time........
In any relationship it is the conflict between the two egos called the "belief systems" This ego is a boundry which one cannot cross If this boundry is very hard to break then the problem starts Problem too is a misnomer that way It is a boundry which one cannot cross It does not exist in reality It is the result of Strong un breakable Belief System This is also called Vignanmay Kosha By Yoga. SO If one can dissect open the Vignanmay Kosha (like an surgical operation)the problem becomes smaller or disappears. The other solution to so called problem is to creat a bigger problem and the real solution to any problem is TIME Time is the best healer as it is said This mechanism applies to marriages as well. Be open to learning Have trust Have respect Be a good listener Have love for Your self and in turn for your partner Communicate with the being of the partner and marriage will continue in atleast a normal way But this is to be followed by both partners for which UNDERSTANDING is a must So correct the belief system (Concepts) with understanding and there will be hardly any problem in relationship Thank U for reading Dr M M Oza
a nice article,,,,,, but alas it is only an article to be read and only read.......
when a marriage turns bad, no force on earth can save it. If two persons still live together it is only for selfish reasons or fear of unknown and facing social stigma
I wish marriages work for everyone.
Good luck mates....
....................... harvinder (i need tons of that....)
The article dwells well on the complications in a marriage. Given the fact that pre-marriage counselling is yet to take off in a big way here, this article is great. I guess that the points in both the articles are relevant not only to marriages but also to other inter personal relationships.
RE:Common Marriage Probs
by s k rao on Oct 10, 2006 11:39 AM
The article on the above topic is not only educative to the married and aspiring to marry people but also helpful to contemplate corrective action to review their strained relations and enjoy blissful married life, instead of frittering away their valuable time in daily quarrels and divorce measures. Such articles need to be read by all to have a positive look not only on marital relations but relations of all kinds so as to consolidate them and put them on sound footing.This will alleviate the daily stress in life. s k rao, Bangalore/10-10-2006
