The views expressed here are appreciable. Its all bcoz her parents have been successful in inculcating family values in her. So, all credit goes to her upbringing. Very few people are like her. Her husband is lucky to get a wife like her. I strongly believe that a family is built by a woman's upbringing. :) :)
Hi Shalini! Im truely amazed after reading this article of yours! I, actually am a Bachelor waiting for a suitable bride(the Indian traditional way). Man, this article has really been an insight to me and and inspiration. How I wish that I would get a wife who would respect me for who I am and wouldnt look down on me for what I earn(in other words-what I dont earn). And talking about me, it really has changed my view on women! Trust me! I never thought that there would be a woman in this planet who would respect a man in your circumstances. I had always thought that a woman would certainly look down upon a man who earn less than her.. But hey! if only this world has a million of Ladies like you, it certainly would be a blessed place to be. On behalf of all the men here who have commented, I would like to say, "WE RESPECT YOU SHALINI" for taking a stand inrespective of your families opinions to love and respect your partner for WHO he is! You truely are amazing...I wish you a blessed and a prosperous married life and a loving and a understanding one indeed for the rest of your life.
P.S. Im sure this is the first article ever to have received so much messages in response! Well done!
hi my wife earns more than me.we dated for nearly 10 years and have been married for more than 10 years.right from the begining we know that she will be earning more than me.while i am a teacher having a tutorial of my own and she is into IT.my earnings are 15% of hers.but it never mattered between us.we are happy with whatever that we earn for living.no problems absolutely what so ever.
hi all.. this article is really very good !!!!! infact this i s somewat like a guide to lead a cool life without any huge burdens or huge sacrifices...
good one... moreover this depends upon each individual how he/she has a perspective towards life..
This is very good article and gives a feeling of almost my life story. But in totality i don't agree to it, becoz you can't suspect your husband becoz of your increased earning is the factor for your quarrels. I am don't support it. what i believe is mutual understanding specially each other needs secondly respect for each other feelings and families, if these things are lacking then i don't believe that is a true love story.
Respect , understand, co-operative,and need fulfill.
I really impressed by the thought of shalini but Dear dont u think life after marriage will be different. U wont be that much confident about ur thought some point of time u also might feel money is important than relation.
man .. i cn't tolerate dis kinda lovey dovey stuff..!! sacrifice everwhere..!!neah! am born n brought like a princess so i would always want everyting n anyting i desire ..n ders a line in da article .. dat girls from well to do faiily are spoilt brats...dats actually true!!!so guys .. plz stop postin dese kinda sad articles ..coz love SUCKS!! chaos..!!!
as far as my feelings are concerned, money has never been a important issue in relations whether maternal or in-laws. infact i would love to earn more and give happiness to my loved ones what they expect out of me or life. my husband and i earn almost same and we spent together on house running so it never came as an obstacle as whose money is involved. rather we plan future also with same kiind of understandings
hope everybody shares the same kind of mutual understanding and love for each other
