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advitiya
Still Living
by advitiya on Jun 25, 2009 04:38 AM

Well yes ,its another story of a broken heart.
We were the best buddies in office,best friends,best couple,best in everyway.She had a ex bf from she has never cut off .Deep inside she wants him back but the guy was not in any intention as per she told me.
She never committed to me or u can say i never let her to be committed with me.Coz i was thinking that we cant be together as she was 3 yrs older to me and may be she really dnt love me the way she used to love her x.Suddenly,without any specific reason she wants to get over with me.I hesitated as i thought we can still be in touch like good friends.No, she just wanted to get this thing over asap that's y she just put fullstop on our relationship in a go.I was like the @##&&#%#%....
I was thinking wats going on and kept wandering what the hell wrong i did to her.All in vain. She went away , dnt want to see me anymore,dnt want to chat with me.
How can a person be so selfish and inhumane?
I am still asking the same question 8 months after our breakup. Searching a way to let myself free from all the question, trying this n that , nothing is actually working. I think i loved her to my level best which she couldnt had imagine ever.But yes its a fact that she is not with me .. dnt know how she is .. still living. :-)

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cant move on
by on Mar 19, 2008 02:33 PM

I just want to seek advice pls. help.

I've been with my boyfriend last nov. 2006 - dec. 2007, a student 21 yrs old and i am 23 yrs old but before that, i had a boyfriend for 3 years and we just ended up last april of 2006. Still we text each other and i do ask his help every time i have a problem. He is a perfect boyfriend for me. we do help each other out during college and he did proved it to me that his sincere but we just ended.

The boyfriend i had was so very different from my x-boyfriend before still we tried to fix things. Most of the time we argue because every time i have a problem i do run to my x-boyfriend because he's the only one who can help me in times like those. One time my x-boyfriend ask me to go to their province to see his relatives and i cant say no even i dont want to go because all of his relatives were expecting me to come. So i went with him that was last dec. 2007.

My x-boyfriend and i knew that there's nothing about us, its just that i went with him to see his family without even telling it to my boyfriend. I never told it to my boyfriend. it was a 1-week vacation. so my bf feels that something's going on so he text and calls me everytime until i ignores his texts. i lied to him, i told him that i am away with my friends then he does'nt believe at me anyways. He get mad and nag mura pa siya.. then my x-boyfriend saw that text and he told me that my present boyfriend will only hurt me with all the words he said to me through text.. and also ther

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trust
by on Jun 28, 2007 12:00 AM

My best friend died suddenly in my house and l could not do anything for him that was 4 months ago, l miss him so much, we told one another every thing he helped me though when my partner of 17yrs walked out and left me, l will never meet anyone like him, when my ex left it was for another woman, now l cant trust a man, l met a guy realy nice but l cant trust him he has asked if we can just be friends untill the trust comes back, l feel so unhappy that l might loss this guy and he knows what l went though in the last year. how can l get over this and start trusting men again?

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puneet
Mine Broken heart is STRONG will reach SKies SOON ..jaimatadi
by puneet on Mar 09, 2007 09:02 PM

Hi Man...
I am really ipressed with your story altough it may sound like a hindi film story to most but trust me it happen in reality. I have a similiar story She hates me bcoz I had insecuirty feeling and followed her when she stated loosing interest in me(even my parents were not agree with the rleation due to casteism) & I am doing well in my career ...Even I have a hope to get a job in US ...n show her that she lost someone who loved and still LOVES her most ...wish me luck ... puneetdwd@yahoo.co.in ...



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Sachin
Please guide me
by Sachin on Dec 14, 2006 08:32 PM

I m studing in graduation.iwas in love with one of my classmate,she was not aware about it.one day we argued on some topic.after that she stop talk with me,although i apologize lot to her.now she has one boyfriend in her life.what is more frustating is i still have 1&1/2 year in college.whenever isee her with him, it hurt me lot.i m unable to concentrate in lecture & in my studies.i have some friend in class but feeling alone since last one year. can anyone tell me what i'll do.

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shweta
why to blame yourself?
by shweta on Jun 14, 2006 12:27 PM

Well it was wonderful reading this article. But how many really apply this when they are heart broken. I feel your break up should not affect other relation which do exist in your life and which are more important than anything. You should instead think that why should i affect myself when he/ she is not botherd or affected and instead of regretting about things,they enjoy themselves and go ahead in life. So rather affecting or hurting yourself show him/her that your are much happier than before and can stay without him/her. You should make them realise that his/her presence doesnot matter at all in your life.

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