In the invitation section, you said that one must let the invitee know who else is coming. In that case, how will you invite the first person you would like to invite? Just my two cents.........
Well, sometimes I really wonder whether we are talking about Indians living in India! Is this really India? Parties with wines, whisky and rum.....! I'd like to reproduce a certain text here. Lord McCauley in his speech of Feb 2,1835 - British Parliament
"I have traveled across the length and breadth of India and I have not seen one person who is a beggar, who is a thief. Such wealth I have seen in this country, such high moral values, people of such caliber,that I do not think we would ever conquer this country, unless we break the very backbone of this nation, which is her spiritual and cultural heritage, and, therefore, I propose that we replace her old and ancient education system, her culture, for if the Indians think that all that is foreign and English is good and greater than their own, they will lose their self-esteem,their native self-culture and they will become what we want them, a truly dominated nation".