i believe sex makes us feel relaxed on the other hand it boosts to feel positive about ourselves. But too much sex can ruin our relationship because sex is not for fun its for eternal bliss and it happens only if the check and balance formula works
RE:About Sex and Relationship
by on Dec 14, 2007 04:03 PM
in my view sex overcomes the stress and tension in this fast lane of our life noone is free of day to day stress, work load and depression. it is a god gifted trick needed to apply very carefully to be succeed so nevermind play game and play wittly!!!
RE:About Sex and Relationship
by shiuli dutt on Dec 14, 2007 05:52 PM
Honestly, sex is reduced to porn when blindly indulged in without any commitment / emotional attachment. sex is a holistic way of expressing how deeply you feel for your partner and should not be brought down to the level of 'masti'. only then can fulfillment be achieved in ANY relationship - not just a marital one. needless to say FIDELITY is of paramount importance in any marriage.
RE:About Sex and Relationship
by MathiMeen on Dec 17, 2007 05:19 PM
shiuli, ask a poverty stricken starving man if food is holistic or a necessity for survival?
Holistic sex out of marital relatioship? Do you mean committed sex out of marraige?
Today's every body life is getting tensious and moreover husband and wife are getting clashing to each other and falimy problems.So how can one have a sex daily. I think weekly once may better choice. Is our mental ability improves?
RE:Sex Improves..
by Adi Mairanhindi on Dec 19, 2007 03:01 PM
@Satya Prasad:the husband and wife dont need to have sex with each other every day, they can try other partners for variety is the spice of life !!
RE:Sex Improves..
by vinod on Dec 14, 2007 10:18 AM
I really agree that SEX is very important for a healthy life but unfortunately it is very difficult b'coz i do nt get proper support from my spouse. At the same time it is difficult to find suitable partner outside your home to enjoy the life.
RE:Sex Improves..
by Vishal Sawant on Dec 18, 2007 05:15 PM
Arererererererere....I have sympothy for u....But the best way to make your partner more excited is increase the foreply.
RE:How could you...
by Sam on Dec 13, 2007 06:26 AM
Well. Mr.Arora, you have to do some research in field of medicine and psychology, to believe that finding. It has been documented several times. As a matter a fact ,people in India have sex thinking they will enjoy, but they end up producing children, which inhibits the sourounding to have a satisfying sex. If you do not believe me, look carefully around you and you will find out. Also, privacy it scarce in India. Thank you
1. Rediff has not given which journal these results are published in. Researchers have claimed this..researchers have claimed that.. damn it... give their names... 2. It only gives the name of the book and not even the name of authors. So is rediff promoting that book?
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Just bcauses u have been brought up in a conservative n relatively backward society called India doesnt mean that the report is biased or rubbish.. Sex is undoubtedly healthy..Touching, hugging, cuddling have been proved to release stress and important indgredients to a healthy life... So the rest of you who have a closed eye on this report - never eat choclates, have only vegetarian meals and marry & indulge in sex only to contribute to the population of India...This I pressume who add to you being proud of the great Indian culture.
RE:How can u say the report is biased ?
by Maharishi xyz on Dec 09, 2007 06:47 PM
Mate.... no one is stopping you... get indulged in whatever you want to get in.... just remember... what goes around, comes around.... Karma will get back to you
RE:How can u say the report is biased ?
by Adi Mairanhindi on Dec 19, 2007 03:05 PM
@yog: so blindly beleiving some report unsupported by verifiable facts makes you come from a liberal and forward society ? Hophead !
RE:How can u say the report is biased ?
by Sam on Dec 13, 2007 06:32 AM
We are way forward in academics, but we are definately lagging behind in our thinking and realistic idiology, otherwise people will not like to step out of India and burst their behind to make a living in foriegn countries.
RE:How can u say the report is biased ?
by arun shekar on Dec 14, 2007 01:43 AM
who says Indians are forwards in academics??? it is still a small section of Indians who are well educated. According to a 2007 UN report, nearly 80% on Indians live on less than 20 rupees per day income. And if you talk about Indians doing well abroad is only because most of them who break their ass to go there, do well in academics due to financial and family pressure to excel and some really take it from there. Indians are no extra brainy as you might wanna feel.
RE:How can u say the report is biased ?
by Sam on Dec 14, 2007 07:21 AM
Mr Shekar, we are looking at a broader picture and not specifics as you quoted. Over the last 30 years, I have dealt with with large number of Americans, who are unable to write a page of note in English, which is the only language they have learnt in their life. And , also, if few thousand indian work hard for one reason or other to excel, I do not see any bad reason behind it.The success is diluted because of large production factories of children in India. This is bad and has not been controlled because of lack of purpose in life. May be you are jealous for their riches and recognition. I like to learn and give credit to any body regardless of their background and try to learn from all the successful people.
RE:How can u say the report is biased ?
by Vinod Pandey on Dec 15, 2007 02:52 PM
Sex sales in India. The long list of arguers over this topic proves this point This is the reason some reputed magzines too carry out sex realted survey after a regular interval. Just attend to Swami Ramdev on Astha Channel daily and your closed mind will get awakened and you will start discussing over some real burning issues, rather than sex.
...let's indulge. Let's drink to hedonism. Wonder what's next...? Something tells me research is being corrupted to satisfy what society wants to hear.
RE:Wow...
by arun shekar on Dec 14, 2007 01:50 AM
So sex is morally corrupt to you?? Damn your parents did it that you are slouching on your chair with a pugnacious disagreement on sex. Well buddy, never have sex with any woman in your entire life if it is soo disgusting to you. Probably sex wouldn't been seen dirty in India had pervert hypocrites like you didn't lay your dirty foxy eyes on every woman/girl out there undressing them in your mind on your bed then telling us on rediff that research is being corrupted. IT IS CALLED RESEARCH FOR A REASON
