DON'T get pregnant in the very first year of your marriage??..what if a man's tool get broken in d 2nd year??..unnecessarily we will have to give money for surrogacy..so dont waste time folks..start producing at the earliest..
Re: begin fast
by Li Na on Mar 15, 2013 12:53 PM
raising a child properly is much more important than spreading your genes.
humans are different...only animals want to "start producing at the earliest"
it's best to raise an emotionally healthy child which is only possible if husband and wife understand each other and each others needs....or don't raise a child at all.
Re: Re: begin fast
by siddharth on Mar 15, 2013 02:30 PM
Can not agree more. In our society, the next step to marriage is kids. People get married for breeding. People who especially women who find happiness in their career and decide not to get married earlier are branded to be unhappy and have made a wrong choice. Our marriages are assumed to happen only for breeding.
Re: Re: begin fast
by Adithya Krishnan on Mar 17, 2013 08:30 PM
hey...i wasntserious while commenting that..it was a comment to be taken on a lighter note..why people like u get serious and replying seriously??..these kind of discussions r just time pass..i appreciate your comments but what you said is not the thing i dont know..if a man cant protect his greatest strength, then he's not a man..i just commented earlier on a lighter vein..
IMPO- whats wrong with people of the 1800's??..didnr they live properly and happily?? they should have lived better and responsibly than us protecting indian culture and environment..this is unlike d present generation who go madly after western, culture, style and thus destroying the true identity of india..one should be proud of their ancestors,becoz without them, we would not have even born..keep that in mind ms/mrs. 2013!!
Don't expect anything from your spouse - shower them with love and affection, they will come around sooner than later...otherwise, the stuff listed is generic rubbish, not to worth to waste our time on
Re: today's youth
by shyamal on Mar 15, 2013 02:25 PM
great! I do believe such things happrn! pls. continue to post such reality comments! But how did you get so much knowledge about real life! I bet you must have experienced some part of it
Re: today's youth
by siddharth on Mar 15, 2013 02:34 PM
Yeah I work in an an MNC and I have seen 80% of women here turning into a call-girl or a s.e.x worker.
Re: today marriage concept
by meethi on Mar 15, 2013 11:28 PM
ooops! must have HURT you a lot bro! dont u worry...time will heal & your turn with the matrimonial sites will come too! just take care as not to be on the receiving end this time though!
While the author hasn't covered all the points, she has been fair and has given some sound advice to women who are seeking marriage. I really appreciate the last line: Always put marriage first. The rest will always fall into place.
