Re: only
by Indian Ullu on Apr 21, 2012 03:00 PM
Yes! Paid by such ugly thinking people, Redoff is ENGAGED IN SUPPRESSING TRUE COMMENTS AND ALLOWING SUPPORTING COMMENTS ! Is it not against people who dont want it?
Been there, done that. For mature couples, it is an awesome way to live and share. It is unconditional, one is not bound to the other by fear of legal repurcussions and there are no extraneous (but significant) complications like in-laws and relatives to deal with for both persons. Marriage is but an artificial social construct, anyway, perhaps meant to introduce one's companion to the world. While I found that live-in is great for the persons involved, there are also deep problems mostly arising out of the fact that man seems to have a need to interact with the society and society seems to find it very hard to mind its own business. For example, in my opinion, it would be extremely hard to have kids and raise them due to the questions they might have to face because "society" have a predefined notion of how one should live. Most parents also seem to find it hard to accept this, some have a fear that the partner might leave, leaving the other person high and dry(they don't mind the same two people getting married and the fear of leaving seems to disappear then, perhaps due to legal bonding. But is that any way to live?) How the society will judge also seems to be a major problem for parents. So, we eventually got married to have a normal relationship with our parents and to have kids. Marriage did not change the way we feel about each other. However, we now get regularly lectured on how to live, when to have kids (right now!), how not to spend our money etc. How bli
Re: Its not so bad...
by Indian Ullu on Apr 21, 2012 03:03 PM
The marriage act enacted with enormous FREE HAND to women has created this animality WHO IS RESPONSIBLE OTHER THAN THE GOVT WHO RULED SINCE 1947? SUCH THINGS WERE NOT THOUGHT DURING BRITISH RULE EVEN! HAVEN'T THE INDIAN RULING FORCE DONE MORE DAMAGE TO INDIAN GOOD THINKING PEOPLE?
I am just wondering why media is after killing every familial institutions? What is gr8 about Live-In? There is no benefit anymore, most of the people do that for there convenience so that they dont have any responsibility. They also argue if thing dont work out they can peacefuly move out no need of divorce. But recent court ruling says even live-in couples have right to demand rights under marriage act. So whats the benefit left? Benefit is same thats being pointed in article you can go for all the fun with partner and partners
Live Ins like everything else from the west fascinate and dazzle our rabbit eyes. Do you guys know an organization in Ahmedabad had recently arranged for live in relationship match making for those 50 . the Catch: you had to be earning Rs. 20k or more to join the match making process. apparently there were quite a few takers and TOI recently had a news item that a couple so joined through the live n match making process process decided to take the plunge and tie the knot.
