These are all real life issues to be handled in the growing Family set up first. I have counselled a lot of them who had this sort of issues. Sad to say that they dont go for a prior-personal and professional help. We are 6 boys at home and as we were 12-18 my Father took us all to a Doctor who explaind about personal hygiene, bodily-emotional changes and development in Teenage-Puberty. That helped us to think of us and to have a self-awareness. what matters is, are the children exactly advised, emotionally supported and encouraged for the bodily and emotional change they experience as they reach teenage-Puberty. Parents seem to be ignorant and helpless. Their Tempertantrums are handled so bad. This is the time they need love, understanding and support which help them to take good decisions. Lacking this will lead to problems of this sort (above Problems). Among their own circle of Friends, they dont get help. They just follow them or the society blindly, or just follow a fascinative World. so parents , take courage to find a professional help for ur children as they grow up. Inculcate in them a sense of awareness-worthiness and shape them to follow the desings of the so-called Traditons and VALUES that will really contribute to their happiness and of yours. Better avoid the Stress and Burnouts before this sort of problems happen/ed.