Guys who marry girls who like money sure may have illicit affairs. These girls go for shopping, parties with panties, ladies clubs and other culturals, but never spare their time for their kids and hubbies. So hubbies who have felt sexually deserted may choose another woman for their thirsty. But at the same time, if a guy is unable to afford money to his wife, he better can continue as bachelor. Atleast he can stop his lover falling a victim of brothels when he cannot affort money for livelihood. So the moral for girls and guys is : Marry who is truely loving you and who take care of you properly with day to day decent livelihood.
Frankly speaking we guys are plain nuts, " Girls are very materilaistic and money minded, 90% of women would always choose money over love".
And later they give 1000 absurd meaningless reasons for dumping their X, but the main reason has been and will always remain money. So, I would just say than in 90% of all cases Love is just plain illusion and its money that makes then fall flat into their knees and loose all charcter and stuff.
Re: This is the thruth
by Sanjeev Singh on Jun 29, 2009 05:44 PM
well said --Love exists only on the bollywood screen acted by two handsomly paid galmorised individuals(actor) under the guidance of director to earn moolah(money). In relaity everyone wants money and be rich. Its okay to sleep with a rich buisnessman than to date a poor noble teacher.
Re: Re: This is the thruth
by Abhinav Yadav on Jun 29, 2009 06:28 PM
Well said buddy but i think these kind of things are prevailing majorely in metroes compared to non-metroes.In metroes ethincs,morals,loyalty,trustworthyness and all other adjectives can easily be replacable by money.Money plays a major role and u cant deny this fact as its a bitter truth.the whole world will be with u if u have money in ur pocket otherwise even ur relatives and friends want to part there ways so its very natural for ur partner to get his or her a** off you
we are only human, and act on situations surrounding us at that particular time, we might also be influenced by others views, but in retrospect under changed circumstances we might change our point of view and
I think its a very sophisticated and personal (read family) decision as to whom to marry. But provided the story above I think the need is to check out where this thought process is coming from in our girls rather than blaming them. After all who develops the way your mind thinks and who guides you towards directions you're in?
Present day girls despite being educated themselves give no importance to love and prefer a guy who is rich and who can finance and sponsor them through out. It does not matter whether the guy is shabby, ugly etc. as long as he is rich. There is no difference between illiterate dance baar gals and such educated gals as both run only after money. Baar gals do it out of compulsion but educated gals do it willingly. Baar gals and pros- ti- tutes are better than such educated gals.
Re: Pros tis r better
by abhisek jain on Jun 29, 2009 04:19 PM
Great saying as a matter of fact.Frankly speaking we guys are plain nuts, " Girls are very materilaistic and money minded, 90% of women would always choose money over love".
And later they give 1000 absurd meaningless reasons for dumping their X, but the main reason has been and will always remain money. So, I would just say than in 90% of all cases Love is just plain illusion and its money that makes then fall flat into their knees and loose all charcter and stuff.
I appreciate the article. Finally the choice is wealth and the good things in life it can buy at the cost of love..and between love and the struggle it can bring if your boyfriend is not wealthy.
Most of the times, if you choose wealth for love, you have to give up happiness and the intimacy you felt with your love. No-one else can provide that feeling if you are in true love. If you choose love after sometime when the initial emotions fizzle out then you feel whether it was worth trading the daily struggle for the one you love.
Its not only with love and marriage etc. Choice in life that we make are never black and white. They have different shades of grey. Just another example is NRIs yearning to come back to the country after they have earned a lot of wealth because now money did not matter as much as when they did not have it and they feel hollow and as they compromised family and relations for this dream. On the other hand there are millions who would literally die for this NRI experience because they do not have money.
What you want and your happiness is most important. To be honest with yourself and others is the key. Most of the parents create a lust for material success as a result, their children when they grow up leave them for the same.
Compromises are to be made everytime, but finally every decision is right at that moment of time and circumstances. So never regret it.
