whether women sh. work after marriage or not? the choice should entirely up to women....if someone has spend quality time as true professional,marriage should not be a reason to leave that......women can better understand its responsibility towards family as well as her profession ...trust and understanding between partners can short out every problem.....
Sab ke sab bhashanbaaji kar rahe hain jiss ladkee ko kaam karna hai woh kare achee baat hai, duniya ka pata chalta hai usse aur achee baat hai aur itni problem hai toh aisi ladkee chuno jo sirf shaadi karke housewife banne.
Any waoman who wants to work or not should be given a choice! No one including her spouse has a right to dictate terms! Being faithful and loyal to the spouse is not just one way affair ! It requires a lot more than what we genrally conceptualise!
Re: Women should have a choice
by insan on Aug 18, 2009 04:50 PM
Radhika,
I agree that women should choice to work after marriage however due to a personal problem if a guy wants you not to work, thats ok....BUT this should be told before you got enaged...so you can change your decision accordingly.
Re: Women should have a choice
by chandra sekar on Aug 19, 2009 06:05 PM
Radhika, i am sure u r a spinster and i pity for that poor soul who will knowingly or unknowingly end up marriying a 'Mahila Mukthi' samaj activist
Re: Women should have a choice
by vipul tripathi on Aug 18, 2009 04:21 PM
obviously women should have a choice BUT if her spouse is not ready she will not get success with living him in a home. If she left her spouse than only she can survive .Because he will create problem for her as he don't want that her wife do a job
Re: Women should have a choice
by sudhu on Aug 18, 2009 05:11 PM
it's a case of 'conflict of interest'.. As a girl can hav a dream about a career, a guy can hav a dream about a peaceful married life.
it's responsibility of both to persuade each other.. many times house wives are angry to see husbands being tooo busy..
but if guyz "wish" somthing, it is subjected to be "forcing".. while if girls "wish" somthing it is addressed as "basic freedom"..
I hav seen many girls and i can tel u.. guyz are not as forcing as girls are :)... sorry, if I look biased, but it's my observation( not opinion).
Re: Women should have a choice
by Moral Brigade on Aug 18, 2009 04:28 PM
Yes we r seeing the results of giving the women a "CHOICE" ......the broken homes,broken relationships,stress - all have arrived our shores BIG TIME !
If your would-be hubby does not want you to work you should stop working and try to be a good wife. Do not try to be modern and devastate your family.Do a job only if your hubby is OK with it,else not.
Re: You shud quit the job
by saurabh shrivastava on Aug 18, 2009 09:48 AM
People like you are disgrace to society and disgusting.Bloody chauvinistic .. huh!!
Re: Re: You shud quit the job
by Chutiya on Aug 18, 2009 10:27 AM
You send your wife to work at my office from 9 to 5. I bet she will not long for you any more. She will be a satisfied women. HAHAHA
Re: Re: You shud quit the job
by gobi hna on Aug 18, 2009 10:19 AM
Its our culture that men should work and women should take care of the house. On seeing the western culture dont change ours. Its like you giving birth to your child rather than your wife...Is it possible?
Re: Re: You shud quit the job
by Moral Brigade on Aug 18, 2009 04:29 PM
OK mark me as "Chauvinistic"......the broken homes,broken relationships,stress - all have arrived our shores BIG TIME !
I wud prefer to be a "Chauvinist" than to encourage these to brand myself as "Politically Correct" !
Re: You shud quit the job
by shreya singh on Aug 18, 2009 04:32 PM
who has divided the work of wife & husband U , me or God. No One it is only our society mentality nothing else, everyone has right to do what he /she wants to do. If husband dont respect wife's desire why wife should repect his desire, family responsiblity is not only for wife but husband also
Re: Re: You shud quit the job
by Moral Brigade on Aug 18, 2009 06:00 PM
It's in fact noone Shreya...it's just the mutual understanding,in other words, the "basics" of life which says a wife should take care of the home.
YOU CAN ARGUMENT AND DRIVE HOME YOUR POINT,BUT THAT ATTITUDE WILL NOT HELP YOUR HOME OR THE SOCIETY.
Re: Re: Re: You shud quit the job
by sapna mukherjee on Aug 18, 2009 07:09 PM
I dont care if she wants to work or not after marriage.. dont even care how she looks.. langdi, looli, andhi... but she should be a cook.. anybody?>
