I am divorcee who doesnt take dowry on principles.But My life was made miserable by wife and my in laws.To get out that web I was forced spend lot of money for court cases and settelement including my Laptop,Digital camera etc,etc. So my advice,Principles dont have any value.If you are worth a good amout.Deamand it.No one is going to Give you Padmashri for your principles,And no one will come for help when your In laws give false cases In court a nd police Station.
Re: Take what you get,
by udal k on Jun 02, 2009 01:12 PM Permalink
principles dont get you food. but they are what we should collectively defend. I am sorry for your loss, but principles are too valuable for something as trivial as marital bliss...
Re: Re: Take what you get,
by Roy on Jun 02, 2009 01:26 PM Permalink
You live in your Utopian world.I cannot educate you,with the tortures i have gorn through.
Re: Take what you get,
by insan on Jun 02, 2009 01:13 PM Permalink
Roy..you drag your wife and in laws to "Aap Ki Kachehri with Kiran Bedi" on Star Plus...
Re: Take what you get,
by jitendra upadhyay on Jun 02, 2009 01:12 PM Permalink
very true Roy. i know wat u r saying. "nice Guys finish Last". but stay positive dude...life is beautiful EOD.
Re: Re: Take what you get,
by geetha g on Jun 02, 2009 03:42 PM Permalink
So do u mean to say only girls are gold diggers? What is your opinion about MEN..esp, Indian Men, who takes 5- 10 lakhs in Dowry, Land, want a car, refrigerator, all household items, GOLD, sometimes even JOB before they agree to a marriage?? Aren't they the ultimate Gold diggers??? Guys, please DO a REALITY CHECK!!!and protect your Glass house before you throw stones!!!
Re: Re: Re: Take what you get,
by insan on Jun 02, 2009 04:06 PM Permalink
Geetha...dont panic...Roy has mentioned what has happend to him.Was not targeting a perticular gender at all.
We can never say who is good ..who is bad...because every human being is different that other.
In that case we have only option to go with majority.
