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I am a worried bachelor!
by Rohan Ahuja on Jun 02, 2009 02:46 PM   Permalink | Hide replies

Guys, I am a 26 year old bachelor, and my parents are looking for a suitable bride for me. Going by the current trend, I am worried that I may end up with a gold-digger in the form of a woman. How to find out whether a woman is really after our money, and how to stay away from such women? Please advise

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  Re: I am a worried bachelor!
by Pranab M on Jun 04, 2009 10:23 AM   Permalink
Article 498a and domestic violence acts are legal terrorism.

Even if someone pays 10 lakhs to his son in law , greedy urban parent in laws/wives are twisting arms of son in law to extract 10 times the money that they have spent in their daughter's marraige.

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by Commenter on Jun 02, 2009 03:11 PM   Permalink
Rohan , first tell me at the age of 26 do you need your parents to find a girl for you?Dont you have the capability to find one for yourself?If not then you have to go with whatever is in store for your with the girl of your parents choice.

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by Utpal Parekh on Jun 02, 2009 02:52 PM   Permalink
Why do you want to stay away from such women?? It is these women who are precisely the most attractive..lets face it!! If a girl is smart, beautiful and intelligent, there will be lots of guys chasing her....why do you want to back away from competition??

On the other hand, those women who are plain janes have no one chasing them...do you want to end up with such a girl?? for all you know, she might be a bigger gold digger and an absolutely low level person with weak character..

So, the best is to go for a girl who is smart and beautiful and ensure than you measure up in your career or business......and work very hard in life to keep her happy..

All women are gold diggers..it is just that some have to compromise due to average looks while some girls get it all due to their beauty and brains.....

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by Tall Male on Jun 03, 2009 08:16 PM   Permalink
If all women are gold diggers, why is the society not terming them as dowry seekers? Isn't that dowry in reverse? If dowry is bad, so is good digging by women!

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  Re: I am a worried bachelor!
by milind m on Jun 03, 2009 05:31 PM   Permalink
all luck dear But don't worry search Indian bride only

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  Re: I am a worried bachelor!
by insan on Jun 02, 2009 02:57 PM   Permalink
Rohan...just for one week do this
1:- Stop giving any gifts to her.
2:- Dont take her to any restaurant.
3:- Dont call back,if she gives you missed call.

than see what happens...let others know also

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  Re: I am a worried bachelor!
by Uma Uma on Jun 02, 2009 04:59 PM   Permalink
Only Millionaires are capable of attracting GOLD DIGGERS. I'm sure you don't have much. Don't worry your little self. Im a woman who earns 2 lacs per month and plenty of guys approach me for money. Atlast I have enough to worry about. How much do you have?? ;D

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by pk k on Jun 26, 2009 02:55 PM   Permalink
Umaji ver r u? I have been searching for such a gal all my life. Bhagwan tera koi bhala kare!!!.
Pls tell how do we meet and where? Waiting for u r reply in this msg board !!!

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by Tall Male on Jun 03, 2009 08:19 PM   Permalink
Its an equal society out there and women like you need to stop teasing men who do not have money. Yes, women should stop taking advantages of tradition and modernity together. Either you stick to tradition or modernity. Can't have it both ways.

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by Narinder singh on Jun 29, 2009 04:24 PM   Permalink
Madam, May I know your PAN NO.?

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by pk k on Jun 26, 2009 03:03 PM   Permalink
Umaji ver r u? I have been searching for such a gal all my life. Bhagwan tera koi bhala kare!!!.
Pls tell how do we meet and where? Waiting for u r reply in this msg board !!!

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Would you consider marrying for money?