As i had seen you are advicing to multiple people, i want to share my problems with you. We both love each other from last 7 years. Last month i had sent a maariage propsal to her parents but they rejected, As they all know every thing about we too.. My GF is continous aarguing with them for saying Yes to us.But they are not ready.. I dont have any Idea what shall i do. In last 37 days... i m very much confused & i had done useless things also for her.. & I just want to have to talk with my GF & that i had not done from last 35 days... Please Advice my Self.. waiting for earliest reply..
Re: Re: Love = Life
by Ajay Kumar on Feb 14, 2009 12:26 AM Permalink
mohsin, if you guys have done your best to appease your parents and no result, you are only left with option to courage to marry on your own and it is a right thing to stood to what you think.
Re: Re: Love = Life
by Ajay Kumar on Feb 14, 2009 12:23 AM Permalink
My friend, it is common problem with lovers. Some time you need to stnad for what you think. If they don't agree you have two options, 1. Courage...get married yourself ( I hope you both are adult and you are in good condition as per job to survive). 2. Put your feet down.
I have been through this phase and I opted first option, I am male and here it was opposite, my parents were not ready. I stood by what I felt right. It never means that you never care your parents but you are strong enough to think what should you do. If your GF doesn't agree then sorry you are left with option 2 only.
