thats the problem let a women be a women and not some durga , kali or sarswati.Lets provide some space for men being men and women being women and there is nothing wrong for a mature man and woman to explore and enjoy the pleasure provided by the creator himself. for gods sake dont turn the women and men into some unreachable and achievable loft where they starve themselves to death craving some female company. Lets us admit the policemen are men after all and he too suffers for sexual frustration and given a opportunity he tends to take advantage of the situation. let us atta k the disease not the diseased.