yours is a sane voice that is bound to be lost in the cacophony of hatred.
the hatred is so deep-rooted (in all the communities) that it is difficult to eradicate.
people like you and me and others will be helpless when frenzy of hatred erupts..
i do not know of any practical way of avoiding it.
i am a hindu, have lived among both hindus and muslims and have seen deep rooted feelings in both that the other community is doing wrong to them and only way to confront their dadagiri is to go for dadagiri.