Vedas are so oceanic that a guy who spends a life time can still claim he has just wetted his feet.
Solution; If you find any aspect of the vedas offensive reject it , accept the good in them. No one is going to issue a fatwa for rejecting them unlike the koran. Simply because, we dont have any
1. Prophets who revealed the vedas 2. Ultimate vengeful being who extracts revenge for not worshipping him 3. Maulvis who proclaim fatwas for rejecting the vedas 4. We dont have any book telling us how to dress, how to eat, what to avoid, and A-Z of every atom in life unlike your know all cure all prophet and his koran
PS; I dont follow any vedas, infact no indian does becuase the level of sanskrit is too profuse even for a priest.
By the way your english indicates your belief system
