I live in US too and I nkow how it is too feel lonely and miss our loved ones....But we do make friends here and we r not cursing US and telling US is driving us nuts.... All of us who r here have made this chose and are trying to make it fit into our lives...like make new friends see places explore new relationships and call this home....I think ppl there should be able to do the same and not blame the city.... I totally know what u feel and yes we dont need sympathy coz we have evolved out of the so called gloomy life to make this work in our favor.....