Men and women are meant to love, romance each other the way our movies, media has taught us. Both are made differently. men wants sex and whatever he does to a woman, just for the same purpose. Women want to romanced like a queen. Even sex she has only to get that feeling. Now how can 2 so opposite human live peacefully. Its impossible. Thats why marriage is now looked as bigest fruad. It does not work. Only way it last in india because of immense society pressure. Thats why west is moving more towards spirituality, chintan, manan, dhaan. So u can find the love within you. not be dependent on man or woman because thats nothing but more misery.