Ravi,a hindu,marries Maria,a christian,whereby his son and daughter are no more hindu,by the doctrines of the dharma,which does not pave way for any relaxation for any individual's violation of codes!The dharma is for all , provided he honours the doctrines of the dharma, with no self desire fulfilments!(Ravi fulfilled self desire by choosing to marry Maria, a violation of 'hindu doctrine.H e will remain hindu but his wards will not be! H e is not debarred to perform the rites as per 'hindu dharma'but not in a temple!Because that will be a relaxation!)If relaxation is granted, the thousands others who follow it rigidly,their disciline and hardship is put to the mat! Let Ravi perform 'hindu' ritesin his private place! But in a community place of 'hindus', with longstanding rituals performed with physical sanctity,he cannot! There is no licence to the priests or the management to ignore it! In 'hinduism'there are millions of methods provided for different categories, and this style is one for the common man with limited abilities! It is a following of 'shastras', no human creation! Today, ill conceived "secularism" thinks, it can do anything to anybody! After all Ravi is not GOD!And the millions who follow the 'shastric doctrines are not'cheap fools' to be ignored! So the sentiment of Ravi is unjustified!If his son goes to court,court will say "hindus rituals' should be honoured in a 'true secularism"! If number plays the game, then dear men, who say against it may hear! By arr