Things never change unless the people change their attitudes. Yes resilience is applaudable but it is also a way of life rather than choice. Most don't have a choice than to continue with life the way it is. A radical change is required in the psyche of the common man in India. Stand up for yourself. Demand answers. Make the Government work for you. Don't complain. Don't shrug it off. Don't forget. and don't let them forget! Work to put a system in place. You cannot stand in the war zone and cry peace. The effort and the times for peace negotiations have already ceased when you face a war. This is what the US realizes. As for communal seperations, I would really welcome a statement from the Maulavi's and Pandits and well known religious outfits openly OSTRACIZING the terrorists. Not just criticizing. Ostracizing. That is the only way they can pronounce their allegiance to co-existence and exhibit their sincerity to the cause. Believe it or not, their stand influences huge sections of their communities. Unfortunately, not a word!
