I am also a soldier a fauji. Please do not put your sympathetic words to us. We do not fight against enemeies at boarder because we are paid for that but it is not only our but of all Indian's basic duty towards India. Lucaritive offers to family after life-sacrifice is not all wanted by us or by our families. But one thing that is RESPECT to soldier and their families is always seeked. Politicians are doing their duty, heroes are theirs. The day we join armed forces, we tune our mind like that only. On first day itself we think to sacrifice our life for country. So do show sympathy to one who used his life for mother country, but please show sympathy to soldiers like me and hundereds who could not make use of their life for India. Less lucrative Pay comission and many many hardships - we are customised for that. So smile for that soldier who could use his last breath for mother country and be happy. Dying for a country his one of the dream of soldier.