Well ... do you feel like doin it with everyone?? if not then you are not a man i would say ... and then all include ALL .. and, without naming, I am sure you would have respect for 1 or 2 of them ... how would you feel when someone else looks at these people, with your eyes?? do take care when u justify all your actions with these silly arguments ... lust is different from being mature ... USE also your intellect ... not just your libido