will you also consider saying a guy marries a girl just cos she is beautiful is a useless and weak man..all these are independent choices of a person inrespective of gender as to what they like in the other person be it money, beauty, intelligence, creativity, power, kindness..anything...so long as we indians are dictated by elders in the family..often we end up getting into wrong choices...and believe me love can wash away all the flaws...