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Planned in heaven but implemented on earth.
by bimal mohapatra on Jun 02, 2009 02:03 PM

The age old saying says, "Those who marry for love hath a good night but sorry day and vice versa." So money and love are two aspects of marraige and co-related with each other so far as a healthy family living is concerned. Love has spiritual connotation whereas money has materialistic connotation. And this is a known fact that spiritualism and materialism can not co-exist from reality fact of view. In view of this whenever there is an attempt for forceful co-existance of these two due to extra matrimonial point if view (Say for example due to social and family obligation mostly seen in India), there are conflicts and crash which sometimes lead to break up of relation and finally divorce, and in extreme cases shameful brutalities that we read in every day newspapers and see medias. However, there are some exhibitable examples of co-existance. And detail study of those reveal that that is possible due to understanding and spirit of 'give and take approaches' among the couples mainly because up there up-bringing and proper education.So,here integral education,which help building charecters of people but pathetically has been neglected these days by our academicians and educational planner for the reasons best known to them, can play a very useful role.Best thing that can be done which is suggested herewith along with the above that couple in case of arranged marraige should be allowed to know each other with the consent of parents before marraige to avoid future complication.

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