It all depends on your destiny. If the family and the girl is good,you are lucky,if not it's your bad luck. I had one of my friend married from colaba a rich divorcee girl bit elder to him just for the sake of money and spoiled his life. They treated this handsome sardarjee as their servant for a long time and finally he has to go to the court to take his wife away from his mother-in-law who was the real culprit.