Yes, I had the unexpected break up, that too my friend left without giving out the reaons. Thats the most horrible,depressing emotion I have ever had. Felt like surrendering to alchol like DevD. But after that I started seeing the world in a complete different veiw. Stared taking life slowly, enjoyed the small things, learnt value of friendship. But at the same time lost hope on existense of GOD. Now I have come back to normal,but still miss her, it has left an hole in my feelings and emotions. Yes, its fine, I started respecting my emotions, I dont curse myself nor GOD. I know I cannot change others feelings. At the end of each day, I still wonder the reason for our separation. What made her leave me. Now to talk with anyone else or telling my emotions I feel what if the person just goes off in one day and never return. Thats the scariest I can ever dream of. Understood that the most important thing in love is communication. And I am sure that I will again surrender to love but this time more sensibly and more responsibly and ofcourse with a person who can communicate. Happy valentines day. Last line to girls, please communicate your feelings, dont hide. hiding will take you nowhere.