It's not in your hands... its all written somewhere out of your reach. Well... yes I am going through such a phase... arnd 7 months now. I even ended up loosing my job there...Nothing excites me now... I die a new death every night. Hardly a moment in the day I can throw her out of my thoughts...
But yes, I decided not to follow the devdas path... rather I quitted drinking, smoking and god only knows how many more things. I got a much better abt job 2 months later... n I am doing well here.
However, dont know how to come out of the pain... and the suffering... its just not in my hands....