I agree with you ATIL, 4 years ago I was in the same situation , My Girl said no despite trying out SRK way of following her May be I was obsessive about her , I was down for 2 Full years, After that I went on with new freinds and new stuff, like I play online Games alot and work more than required, That has made me think about my GF less, the frequency became less, now I remember her only like once in a week and remaining time I am happy. I Needed to do this cos my Parents love me and I cant dissapoint them so I had to manage to search for an altenative and make myself happy , so that my parents looking at me are happy!!!
Spiritual way only helps if you enjoy it. if you dont enjoy being spiritual... it wont help trust me... so people who dont like being spiritual and go to ashrams,temples etc with your granny wont help you . its only by doing things which you like will help you( I can also mean going with your Granny)
so you need to keep yourself busy in things you like. thats the message I can give as I personally experienced it and Even SRK who lost his parents tells us the same thing tries to forget it by doing things which He likes ...Acting... and hes giving amazing performances.... Coz of it..
I heard a lot of sh*t earlier from religious people in above Mssgs... man You gottta be kidding to give advise when you didnt really go thru it and again make people confused with your Dogmas... it isnt wokring in majority of the peoples case. I am a living example,
