You are right about practising and preaching. But not about being a pervert. Have realized that marriage is for dummies. Stupid guilty feeling, cold vibes, steely eyes, lots of "Nothing" and "Fine" and what not. And no IM not insensitive. Its just that whatever you do and howmuchever you do, the wife is still gonna be that way. Expectations! Expectations from others! Thats what is wrong with this world. Instead of going home, I head straight to the bar.