Learn to take a stand in life. And dont decide for others. Decide for yourself. Learn to know the right from wrong. What makes kissing in public bad and dance bars and pubs good? If you think YOU should have your independence and feel free to refresh yourself, and your way of doing that is going to dance bars and pubs, don't you think someone else's way of 'refreshment' should also be allowed to them? Don't be a hypocrite