U r exactly right. Refree is in favour of West Indies. I really was shocked to see Lara's reaction. It reminded me of my school days cricket. He was about to cry I guess. He should be really ashamed of this. I guess he was more concerned about his record of 26 runs in one over.... Too selfish....
The first problem was with the 3rd umpire itself. When he couldn't take a descision after seeing many replays, Dhoni should have been given not out. When there is a run-out case, if it is tough to decide favour goes towards batsmen end.... Every one gets frustrated when other end steals the show... it doesnot mean u start reacting however u want..