Re: Answer Required
by Pranab M on Jun 04, 2009 10:25 AM Permalink
Search for article 498a and domestic violence act legal terrorism , you will come to know it yourself.
Re: Answer Required
by Dipti Andhale on Aug 14, 2009 09:32 PM Permalink
I think when it comes to answering to all the questions of women, men suffer the most..and when they dont listen to anything and still pretend that they care, women suffer the most!
In institution of marraige the male part is considered bread earner and female is considered homelady. she saves money by doing household chores and realted things and thus save money which ultimately add to total family earning and burning capacity. In my opinion both should understand the realities of life. No husband could afford beyond his means on long term. Similarly female counterpart should understand how they can live within given means. Her overspending will eventually leads her husband to leads tension life. A male could not sustain he should beg from other unless it is apparent exisgency in life. He would prefer simple life then to live lavish life and bag for money to fund it. Life desire are immense and one we ful fill it with it given means only. Borrowing is not an answer if future earning capacity is sure.
Re: MONEY MATTERS
by jitendra upadhyay on Jun 02, 2009 01:29 PM Permalink
what u said was the ancient definition of "institue of marriage". girls r also qualified & earn these days. Both r bread-winners in modern times and both r home-birds. its abt sharing all aspects of life. e.g, It doesnt take "Male" macho stuff to be a software engineer or work in a bank. Its the time of Re-adjustments of geneder-equations.
Re: Re: MONEY MATTERS
by Tall Male on Jun 03, 2009 08:23 PM Permalink
Strangely, women want equality only in non-macho jobs like software, executives etc. When earning was difficult, they were quite happy with sitting at home. Even while they talk about equality, they refuse to pay alimony and maintenance to men.
its the survival of fittest..!! in demand is - beautiful, cunning girls ...and hyper-aggressive guys with no sense of ethics...!! Hook or crook ....but u got to be successful..!! lets face it - its a dog eat dog world....we cant blame women for marrying for money and security and all. going for the physical beauty of girl alone also dont make u a "Sadhu" precisely.
Re: Nice Guys ...Finish Last...!!
by Utpal Parekh on Jun 02, 2009 02:44 PM Permalink
Rest assured that you have finished last in all your endeavors and have always been a loser in life...cos a guy who is a winner never talks like that.....just a little bit of knowledge of human psychology dude...don't take it personally!!
I am divorcee who doesnt take dowry on principles.But My life was made miserable by wife and my in laws.To get out that web I was forced spend lot of money for court cases and settelement including my Laptop,Digital camera etc,etc. So my advice,Principles dont have any value.If you are worth a good amout.Deamand it.No one is going to Give you Padmashri for your principles,And no one will come for help when your In laws give false cases In court a nd police Station.
Re: Take what you get,
by udal k on Jun 02, 2009 01:12 PM Permalink
principles dont get you food. but they are what we should collectively defend. I am sorry for your loss, but principles are too valuable for something as trivial as marital bliss...
Re: Re: Take what you get,
by Roy on Jun 02, 2009 01:26 PM Permalink
You live in your Utopian world.I cannot educate you,with the tortures i have gorn through.
Re: Take what you get,
by insan on Jun 02, 2009 01:13 PM Permalink
Roy..you drag your wife and in laws to "Aap Ki Kachehri with Kiran Bedi" on Star Plus...
Re: Take what you get,
by jitendra upadhyay on Jun 02, 2009 01:12 PM Permalink
very true Roy. i know wat u r saying. "nice Guys finish Last". but stay positive dude...life is beautiful EOD.
Re: Re: Take what you get,
by geetha g on Jun 02, 2009 03:42 PM Permalink
So do u mean to say only girls are gold diggers? What is your opinion about MEN..esp, Indian Men, who takes 5- 10 lakhs in Dowry, Land, want a car, refrigerator, all household items, GOLD, sometimes even JOB before they agree to a marriage?? Aren't they the ultimate Gold diggers??? Guys, please DO a REALITY CHECK!!!and protect your Glass house before you throw stones!!!
Re: Re: Re: Take what you get,
by insan on Jun 02, 2009 04:06 PM Permalink
Geetha...dont panic...Roy has mentioned what has happend to him.Was not targeting a perticular gender at all.
We can never say who is good ..who is bad...because every human being is different that other.
In that case we have only option to go with majority.
In my opinion, money matters most when it comes to life, when we consider the interests of life partner. If she wants to stay independently, and have to go to hotel every weekend, go to theatres each days, purchase sarees, then with out money, every husbands will be in trouble. So it is better to marry after having something in our pockets to spend. We cannot blame them also. The consumerist culture is catching up and we have to go along with it. Saravanan
I read a reserch servey sometime back in "Times" magazine....a it was scientific survey. it says that women get more pleasure from love making when their partner has a solid social standing. if their male parter is powerful and successful they get more pleasure frm love-making irrespective of other attributes of their partner. Now i wont deduce any judgement out of it. let u folk decide...
Yes, dese dayz every body is giving preference to money weather it is boy or gal. But there is 1 thing.. if gals n dere parents wil look 4 well-settled boy den its not possible to get a boy well-settled... dey wil only be able to find well-settled uncles... coz to settle completely it takes 10yrs n boyz start dere actual life after 25. So da age @ which dey vil get settled is 35.. n dat is age of a uncle(not boy).
