because we are all busy in our proefssional lives we hardly take out time for love for each other in a relation . This leads to the relation becoming weak and eventually the relation will break .
The result of this?? Broken families! Children raised with parents who are divorced ! This emotional turmoil will impact your professional lives and your success in work.
So then how come this topic is not important i ask ? So todays demanding career hardly leave any time for and building relation. we have to make extra efforts to keep the love going.
Re: this topic is very valid and important
by irfanuddin muhammad on Jan 14, 2009 12:53 PM Permalink
the best thing to do is to comeout of the rat race. stop being greedy and value relationship more then money. Spend quality time with your loved ones intead of doing overtime and all that bullshit. stop aping the western lifestyle otherwise we will soon be ending like those fools who do not blv in the institution of marriage and realtions.
these types of articles are destroying indian values.... already we see only nuclear families these days and now the western influence wants to destroy our culture completely where there is no feeling of love between spouses..... the girls on the name of being independent have forgotten all their values and have now become a thing of use... just use these girls and throw them , don't be emotional with todays girls....
Re: crap thing.s...
by Bernadette on Jan 14, 2009 03:47 PM Permalink
Do you mean to say the guys are great and stick to the traditional old values? Grow up. And do u think guys are worth being emotional around too?
Re: Re: crap thing.s...
by saahhil on Jan 24, 2009 02:28 PM Permalink
l s ..... i think u shud stop thinking about what girls are and what girls do... because still today, when west is destroying our culture (according to your great thoughts), major %age of girls are still virgin, they still value marriage and loyalty, and they are more aware of the indian tradition, culture and values more than the guys. So grow up, and try to concentrate on how u can become a good husband material, so that at least that one girl can say- I am truly happy with my marriage.
Now don't blame married men for getting into extra marital affairs. Once your wife starts earning money, she doesnt have time to think about romance/sex. Where else should married men go then ? Either to their ex girl friends or new girls !!! Even though I'm strongly against extra marital affairs, I felt I should warn those married working women, that pls provide a little bit time for your husband with regards to care, romance, sex etc.. As there are loads of options available these days in terms of single girls, desperate house wives, pls dont blame us if at all we fall prey to them.
Re: don't blame men !!!
by Bernadette on Jan 14, 2009 03:50 PM Permalink
Breaking news.. Women go to work bcoz it's difficult to manage the house with only one income with today's cost of living. And apart from that she takes care of the house too. And still if people feel that they can have an affair overlooking all their wives do.. I guess wives dont need such husbands.. do we friends?
Re: Re: don't blame men !!!
by ambilydadi on Jan 22, 2009 10:50 AM Permalink
You are very Correct..Women need to work and give Extra Energey to meet the balance in Life and work. She need care always.. So Y this So called Men cant Come with Care ,Romance and Sex, Why he cant take the Initiative for those?
many years back there was a time when I would frequently visit rediff for latest news update, but during last few yrs rediff certainly seems to have lost its touch. to attract mroe people to site, rediff should give more emphasis on its news content.
The Previous Messages term this article to be worthless, but I differ from them. As a matter of fact, there are many marriages and relationships that suffer because of the absence of quality time between spouses/partners, due to the careers and the stressful lives they lead. Why do you think, partners resort to extra-marital affairs, infidelity??? Just for fun? Not in all cases. A significant number of these instances generate out of turbulent marriages/relationships. This article is definitely worth discussing.
Re: Re: yeah
by RAHUL on Jan 24, 2009 11:35 PM Permalink
Why should'nt we discuss on this topic ? After all this is a phase of life where people often lose the track of what they are doing and without proper balance in lifestyle, living life is worth less. This forum can be efficently used to discuss about the intricacies of life after marriage and the problems that people face and how they tackle them. Thank you Rediff!!
