we can't choose our parents, siblings, relatives and place we want to be born but we can choose our friends, life partner, career, clothing, food...etc. Humans tends to make mistakes, so if we made a mistake in choosing our friends and life partner we can always correct those mistakes... Atleast we're fortunate in this regards.
These days breakups are common and lost its essence completely, if someone becomes devdas in today's world then he'll be treated as if he belongs to lost era. Atleast 10 brekups per person is normal and one should have more breakups to become mentally strong and concentrate on his career rather wasting time trying to keep the relationship.
I also had similar on hte lines of Dev d,serious affair gone sour .It was hard to forget and i cried than tried all bad things,absolute cahracter assassination,later i realized its life n its ups and downs n beacame more wiser n mature...
breakups and divorces are becoming common in india now. bringing lust and shortterm desires into marriage. importing all this from west . funny thing is that woman initiate 70% of the divorces . which means they also aping western womans .
Although its very difficult to believe but its true. Thats what happened with me.????
Long back while i was doing ma graduation(2002-2005) in the 1st yr itself i met with one beautiful girl and there was someting in ma mind and dared to propose her. But she refused to say yes yet she had also love for me. After 7months of struggle she finally said yes. And one new world we entered into i.e. LOVE. We sincerely loved each other but it was ma fate at the end of ma graduation i.e. 2005 we broke up for silly reason. Gone gone. gone. Ma dream, hope everything i lost. For study m shifted to Bangalore and did P.G by 2005-2007 and managed to have a good job in IT company. But to be frank i never loved any one on ma way and still had a hope on ma first love. Only dreamed of her coming back.
Gods blessing!!!!! 2008 jan i got connected with her and again same journey of love. We started sharing everything. Finally i was happy to have ma past love.
Again ma dream!!! Fate!!! Shockingly one day revealed that she had an affair with another guy once we broke up 1st time. She said sorry and wanted me to leave her alone. I cried. couldnt do anything. I decided to go away from her life. no connection.
After 2months one fine morning she called me and started explaining that since i was the first lover she wanna me back.
This time the ball was in ma hand, so i just acted as i am the same but very badly i cheated her and sure she will have to suffer in har entire life.
Re: Love Became Revenge!!!!
by Bernadette on Feb 11, 2009 12:38 PM Permalink
She was absolutely wrong and never loved u truly and so cheated u. but how can u say u ever loved truly love nevr thinks of revenge my friend. What u have done may be correct if u did it to an enemy,dont claim to have truly loved her.if u had loved truly, u ould never think of revenge.
Re: Re: Love Became Revenge!!!!
by abhay shukla on Feb 11, 2009 12:14 PM Permalink
HEy Dear Frd, I wont say that whtever u did is rt r wrong but remember 1 thing that,,, its not like she is gonna suffer or something, she will als3get u like anything...
Marriage break-up it self have become casual then what are you asking for??? You are posting so many useless topics. I am telling to post a topic 'Some gentle men may have modesty which can be outraged by some arrogant women. How to protect it since the law fails to do the same???' REDIFF-Be a neutral human being rather than 100% feminist.
