even i met a girl on online some years back and got steady with at that point of time she was studying . and after finsiing her ca she ask me to tell her the future plan. but i was in trouble at that point of time and she got better paying job b4 me, and even want to marry me at that point of time 2. but at the same point of time she started cribing not spending enough time with her . which led to break up. so girl too get emotionally innvolved only too find out that boy is not intertested in her.
We all are selfish but most of the women are more so. They are not ready to sacrifice an inch.
It's impossible to win over an woman in arguemnet. Simple logic does not matter. Thinking process is different.
We all lie more or less. Women are far smarter. Men can get caught very easily. The main problem is that men tend to forget, it's in our genes.
It's not that I'm an MCP. We all like women, share, love, forget and forgive. Both of us need each other very desperately. I'm just talking of the basic nature. My knowledge/experience could be limited but I'm just sharing here.
A major mistake I did/we men do is that we shower our love with expensive gifts or in other ways very soon. We must avoid it at all costs. It's not healthy.
Re: Everybody is so different
by ashok vidyarthy on Dec 22, 2008 04:07 PM Permalink
Absolutely agree with you.
We forget pretty easily, while she would hold on to what you have said once upon a time and pounce on you if you made a mistake while rehearsing it again.
And also we men have to learn to lie and keep a straight face.....
Re: why...& how...????
by Dilip BK on Dec 23, 2008 10:22 AM Permalink
Dear Yeh Hindustaan hai, yehaan kuch bhi ho sakta, Kyun ki hum log jyada, dusron par bharosa rakhte hain, sirf pet ke liye kaam karte hain aur tarakki ke liye nahi....jitna bhi cheese humare desh mein hum log dusre deshon ka karte hai waise he yeh rediff ke log bhi apne fayade ke liye, dusro ka article ko print apne ghar ke upar print karte hain....kyun ki yeh hindustaan hai....bk_dilip@rediff
Girls don't pretend to be smart... Girls only want the guy to be true to her , to love her so much than her parents as well , to take care of her , to protect her from this cruel world , to give her all the neccesities she wants....
As far as I have seen and understood, guys are emotional and girls are practical. Guys look at emotional and physical bonding, but girls are looking at only their future with the guy and the economic status the guy can give them.
Re: Guys are emotional whereas girls are practical
by vivek jain on Dec 15, 2008 09:03 PM Permalink
Absolutely right, girls are only interested in the economic status of the guy, that's the main reason for which they ditch men.
Many doesn't tell true at the first instance. I am interested to form a group, where they can express themselves what they think and whatever they fantacies and relieve his/her stress. eg. one who wants to scold his/her boss/collegue, but cannot do it. They can meet us and relieve their stress by scolding, what ever way you like. Second example: if you want to talk anything privately, but cannot talk to any other person due to personal ego, etc., they can express, which will not reveal to anybody. That ethics/moral will be followed. Whatever they want to express even in sex explore not physically but mentally it will get easy out. let we try from now and if you are willing, you can mail me to sanjaysanjay14@rediffmail.com or sanjaysanjay141@yahoo.com
I have a funny incident in my life. I work for a reputed company and often chat in the internet. I met a girl in chat who seemed to be nice at the first time. I told her about my job and about my family. The girl was just crazy to meet me and was telling me about her hopeless lonely life. She was dying to get a boy friend with whom she can share everything. During chat, i just told her that I dont have any girl friend. When we met, i just spoke the truth that I have a girl friend. After that she never called me back. I used to know some of her friends. I tried to get some information, and I found that she is seriously involved in a relationship with her colleague. Moral of the story?????
Re: Girls are so bad...
by viki on Dec 16, 2008 05:35 PM Permalink
The Girl was Interested in you. Just for the ego her friends or she made the story that she is involved with her colleague. True Love is rare in this world. Dont hurt innocent heart.
Re: Re: Girls are so bad...
by raheja on Dec 15, 2008 06:30 PM Permalink
both were on the same side on the coin which she realised. so she knew no point in talking further.
Re: Re: Re: Girls are so bad...
by Guest on Dec 16, 2008 05:23 PM Permalink
as d case luks lyk, both r wrong on each side...its d utmost gud faith which is more important...rite???? Anyways its better u got d shock early...it makes u & others (who hav read it) more prone to shocks... hav fun..& live ur king size lyf...
i havent been on too many dates to boast about.... but i guess on a first date a guy would like to hide certain facts about girls theyve been with previously..... its a big factor on which girls judge guys..... also the guys might get braggy about their skills..... girls like multitaskers !!!!!!!
